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Love on Camfrog = Scammed on Camfrog

Falling in love on Camfrog is a dangerous situation.  Well, yeah it worked out pretty good for me.  I even went to the other side of the world.  But how many times was I lied to before it did work out.  Several times. Its not just Camfrog, its the net.  Internet love, Camfrog Love, is a path filled with mines.  The long distance relationship is likely the least of your problems

One of the main draws of the Internet is that it allows one to become who ever they want to be.  Some people do this consciously.  Others do it without even realizing they are doing it.  They may be shy in person but bold online.  The may be married in person but single online. LOL

The number one danger sign for Internet love when your partner has started a new relationship with you before ending the one they are in now.  Now if all you’re looking for is some fun, romance with no strings then you might be okay.  If you think you’re special, that she wouldn’t treat you like that.  That she’ll cheat on this guy because he’s awful and you’re much better and that she REALLY loves you, you’re in for trouble.

If someone ask you for money, that’s a really bad sign too.  If they ask twice, you’re being scammed.  Okay, their are exceptions again and your girl or guy is different, they are not like the rest but that’s what everyone thinks.  I’ve seen it too many times.  I have been a victim of some of what I’m warning you about.

In the Philippines, their are girls out their making a living and a very good living by scamming men.  You are not their only one.  Some of the best paid people in the Philippines are the women that are doing this.   And if you’re not real careful, it wont be a woman at all.  It will be a man.  Sometimes, it is a mother daughter team.  The mother will tell the daughter what to say, but you’ll never see mom.  Its not just the Philippines.  The Philippines are what I know the most about.

One good test is to send the girl some cash.  Doesn’t have to be a lot.  Ten bucks is a lot of money for most people in the Philippines.  If you send them $20.00, that’s more money that many Filipino have had in their hand at one time, in quite a while.  Don’t be surprised if they demand more money and dump you if you don’t give it to them.  If they do, it was always about the money.  If they dump you for such a reason, give it three days, they will be back.  It will still be about the money.

Now we guys are easy.  Women have this non-answer answer trick they love to use.  I think it may actually be in the genes!  You have to listen careful and be 100% certain she’s not implying what  you want to hear.  I’ve seen this so many times.  They may giggle and act as if they just have a hard time saying certain things, especially “I love you.”  And the word “maybe” does not mean yes, it means yea maybe in your dreams but it ain’t true.

The number one trap that gets guys, and it is usually guys, is their own ego.  Their own sense that they are better and the girl will love them because they are better is what will get you into trouble.   This woman really understands what your value is while your wife doesn’t.  It ain’t so and again, if she’ll cheat on him with you, she is going to cheat on you too.